hey all im 19 and i mean i shave my chest and recently my arms. I only did it to impress girls. I heard girls don't like hairy guys... if i could get some feedback on what your gilrfriends/wives or significant other thinks about this issue i would greatly apprecaite it. My mom told my dad id id and he called me a ****ing weirdo and left the dinner table... so.. I just wanna know what's best for impressing chicks. Thanks guys.


Sincerely Briz

im so glad i dont have that problem with hair :-s
GL bro.. lol

it depends on how hairy you are i guess! are we talking hairy like a monky or what??

hair is okay if you keep it neat . like if you're talking chest i'd say just trim it so its neat . don't shave the arms that is weird its like girlie. men are supposed to have some hair!! most guys anyway. 19 mmmm. well i think if your hearing girls like guys who shave its the neather regions they are refering to. just be very very careful.. and yes that is true. no one like a nose full of hair if you know what i mean.

we are not so different as you think so just apply within reason and good taste what sounds reasonable. most women like different types just like men do. why do you think we all look different!! some women like hairy men some are indifferent some don't . but that is just the exterior its more about who you are and how you are. respectful and a good listener that matters more. its the little things that matter more cause they add up. every woman wants to be wanted and to feel like the bomb to someone. get it!

Look i've seen waay hairier guys. But im afraid people will think im gay or some stupid **** if i trim my hair or wtv. I mean my dad ****ing cursed mea nd left the table he was like "Christ dont ever tell your grandfather that" then he said "If people find out u shaved ur chest they will never let it go"

And it relly hurt. I'm not the only guy. and how much trimming should i do.. **** man. Im gettin all down about this **** and it's not my fault im hairy wtf. I have hairy legs and it goes up to my ass what a lovely picture. No of course im not hairy like a monkey... ooh ooh ah ah lol

lol.. i'm talking trim it to 1/2 inch or 1/4 inch as far as chest hair goes . like i said the rest- arms etc . leave it alone!! most guys have hair on their ass its called being a man. no biggy. really its not like its acarpet or anything so just leaave it be. chest hair if trimmed so its not all out of control can be sexy. so just enhance your sexyness.

ps what is wtv??

as far as your dad chalk it up to being old fashioned and thats his prob not yours. i know it hurts but you cannot be freaked over it. are you doing it for him or you. thats right you so let it go. people will always have something to say about you so take from it what you will. did you ever ask him why it was such a big deal?? might help you to understand where he is coming from? just a thought. my parents hate tat's and i have 3. i just explained to them why i got them and listened to their views on it and we understand that its okay to have different views , it makes life interesting.

ps if you've other killer assets no one is looking at yourhairy chest unless its its an exceptionaly nice hairy chest. its eyes lips then butt for most of the women i know. from all age groups (college and up).

Bro, quit sweatin' it and just keep it trimmed up. The last thing a girl (as my wife tells me) is to lie next to guy that has shaved his chest in the last couple days and you're all prickly.

The only thing I keep shaved is-back, shoulders, and arm pits.

I really appreciate the help guys. Especially from multiple perspectives. i guess if im hairy it's just who i am. And btw where can i put up some pics new ones the one i showed is kinda old and im more tan and a lil more muscular now so i would like to show yall this sexyness.

P.S and Jenn wtv means Whatever.

thanks for the clarification.. we all have our hang ups no matter what you look like even if your a total babe you still have something you want to change right! we are our own worst critic!! i agree about the prickly thing too yuk. i know i wouldn't want to snuggle in with 5 o' cloclk shade on some guys chest ouch. be who you are and love it. esp. at 19, i wish i could go back!! lol. actually life gets better with age i think.. 31 and loven' every min of it.

dude...shaving sux balls

go get yourself this stuff...its called Aussie Nads. Works like a charm...you just gotta deal with the pain associated with waxing. this stuff is no heat and its a gel. not too expencive and you're good for about 8 week before you need to do it again

when it grows back in it won't be as rough or as "prickly" as the gf would put it

gl anyways...i got the same reaction from my parents and i just told them not to worry..it's not like i shved their bodies

I for oen don't mind hairy guys. If that makes you feel any better. My boyfriend is "scruffy" as I call it. I love it. In fact I get upset with him when he even shaves his face. I don't know like Jenn said women like different things. Don't shave unless you don't like your hair. Don't worry about what the girls think honestly thats not attractive.