I see you are from Kansas! Good peeps in Kansas
Welcome to the forum, my friend. We will try to assist you all we can as you "earn" your goal you seek.
This begins with educating yourself, and then putting what you learn together, and then watching, looking, and adapting to your "personal" feedback from your body. Dont ever forget this.
Your personal want-o-meter has to be at a level that gives results. There is no other way.
Go here and read on some basic and fundamental information: Weight Training 101 Nutrition 101 Delaware Consumer Health Information Services(originally posted by Wrangell)
Weight Training Technical Articles How to get abs guide Sig's food list Go here for some thoughts on the mental side: Weight Loss Intricate The ChillOut Log by Chillen
(allot of pages to go through, but there IS good information that may help you if you take the time to seek it)
Again welcome to the forum. I couldnt wish you any more luck with your goals.
If you have questions ask them.
You may want to consider creating a journal. This way you can ask additional questions, post your diet and training, keep a log of thoughts, etc.
A lot of persons view these logs, and it could assist you, possibly, in allot of ways!
ROCK ON!
Chillen