Personally I've always liked big guys. If a guy is bigger you appear smaller. My sister was with a skinny guy and she practically starved herself. Lately she's been hanging out with a LB from a D-1 school and has put on a little weight (good weight they've been working out together) The ex came back to see her and she was like "Damn he's little" It's all about relativity. Her body perception is much healthier.

My husband was an Offensive lineman in college. There's no way I would have ever dated a guy that wasnt at least 50lbs heavier than me. Typically it was always 70+ and they were all pretty solid. They were all also over 6ft though.

It may sound a little neanderthal but a woman feels safe with bigger guys. What can I say you cant erase thousands of years of instinct.

OOPS! What was I thinking! lol It should have read:

"Chillen, and....oh yeah, that Hugh guy and the other one....."

lmao

Well I don't know about all that, I don't base my size on anybody else's size. It's all dependent on how big (or small) I prefer to be in relation to my own health, which, has basically remained the same most of my life. The only exception being when I was pregnant . And as for safety...well, that's why I carry a 9mm.....LOL!

My size has *never* changed because of the size of the guy I was with....That just gives others *way* to much influence over you. Ain't gonna happen....lol

My husband is not all that big. He's 5'9" and around 160lbs. I didn't marry him because of his *size* ....LOL (I can see the remarks already...... ) I married him because we are prefect for each other.......

Ideal size?

Bigger than I am now. And with some hawtness like Diane on my shoulder.

i actually laughed out load reading that, sometimes i feel exactly the way you do. he is in sick shape

Unfortunately as our bodies get bigger our head-s get smaller in prospective. Hmmm, I do get emails on how to fix that though.

i likw bodies that do, better than bodies that "look."

I'd rather have a body that performs, and appearance does NOT always equal performance.

I'd rather be with a female that can run and sweat, and get knocked down once in awhile, than some sit still and starve chick.

For me. I find that i can transform to a certain extent to "participate" in whatever my current goal, or adventure is.

Living is better when I am in shape to live, than when i live to try and "look like" i'm in shape. If that makes any sense.

FF

Far more sense than you usually make

I like Vin Diesal...very buff, lean enough, though his legs might need some work (I can't really recall if he's a bit top heavy).

yeah Diesel, there is another very well built guy! I think he looks good too!

Vin Diesal.. ugh.. everyone thinks he's so buff.. he just reminds me of Christian Thibaudeau.. sure, you can't deny he's big and stuff, but I dunno..

I'm suprised non of you have said you want a body like mine tbh...

Quite offended really..

He had a pretty interesting article in Men's Health or maybe it was Men's Fitness a few months ago.

I swear my wife sits there and drools when he is on the screen. Same thing with Van Wilder's body in Blade 3.